Impressions bring Expectations

This my second session for a #real talk I hope you all can relate to it and like it.

“First impression is the last impression”. Why so??? I think this very thing has a lot of negative effects. I am sure quite a lot of you , have also faced it!

I have heard this quote almost for a million times in my life till now. But I wonder how will our first impressions define us as a person??? Or how can it define our Personalities??!!! Well , I don’t believe this at all. And I also eventually end up inviting a lot of problems for myself!!!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

My mom , she has a peculiar way of looking at people. For eg) 1. A person who is good in studies, why will she / he have to wear goggles??!!πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€” Or just just dress themselves normally.!!!.2. A girl who is a scholar , why can’t she have a good fashion sense???!!! πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„If she puts on Makeup or wears fashionable clothes, people are like,”Oh! I heard she is a scholar ! Is she really?” Oh why can’t a girl being good in academics have a good fashion sense??😌😌😌 I suppose it’s not a crime!!! Or a boy having a lot of piercings , people to him are like” wear dresses why jeans and t shirts with ear rings???” I don’t understand why can’t it be his own fashion Statement??πŸ˜“πŸ˜“

A lot of people judged me too! I honestly never used make-up till my 9th standard. I started using “kajals” and ” lipsticks” when I was in 10 th standard. And then , I received some comments like , ” OMG , I guess you have learnt a lot about make up in your teens???”😡😡😡😱😱😱 I wonder how people be so heartless to one person . Then again last year on a day of festival I applied a ” Blue Liner “and lipstick (as usual) to try something different. After getting dressed , I posed for a few pictures and put one of them as My WhatsApp Dp.

And then, what happened is, I got a lot of comments,where a few people said,”Liked this transformation” I guess , due to my makeup I got transformed to a different person. How I don’t know πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”!!!A few cousins mine said,” we knew a girl who never dressed herself up like this,who never used make-up,now she’s always a make up person. Ur looking beautiful” I guess with the last sentence they were trying to balance what they said before.πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

I don’t understand ,why do we have to dress up according to our work(except office,job, school purposes)or how people expect us to or according to their perceptions!!! I become really very rebellious in this case.πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Thus, our Impressions brings so much expectations from people. Alot of us, I guess dress according to the others expectations. But trust me I am myself a person who likes fashion. I love trying new attires and love to experiment fusion dresses and make ups. I really don’t care about what people say or think behind me while displaying their beautiful sides before me. What I believe is one thing ” People don’t pay my expenses or my studies or feed me . So I won’t care about what they think or feel. As long as I love myself (not being selfish) and no action or behaviour of mine is hurting others , just live Life in the best way possible.”

I think we should never care about what our Impressions bring about but just care about what deeds we do everyday!!!!!

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I hope you all will like it.!!!πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨

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5 Comments

  1. I agree with you wholeheartedly. We are a judgemental lot and we always try to impose our own assumptions on people. Well, I myself don’t like piercings and all but that doesn’t make a person bad, they may have their own fashion statement as you said. So yeah, it’s a big thing that we don’t judge people by their first impressions. We shouldn’t care what people say and think. And I can well imagine the mindset of all of the people who ‘liked your transformation’πŸ™„ I get rebellious too. I am not so into makeup but I like to try new kinds of dresses so it’s ridiculous how people judge..
    I like your real talk sessions. Keep it up babe❀️😊

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